A message every adult should read, because children
are watching you and doing as you do, not as you say. Adults also watch and react to what you say and do.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you hang
my first painting on the refrigerator and I immediately wanted to paint another
one.
When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you feed a
stray cat, and I learned that it was good to be kind to animals.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you make
my favorite cake for me and I learned that the little things can be the special
things in life.
When you thought I wasn't looking I heard you say a
prayer, and I knew there is a God I could always talk to and I learned to trust
in God.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you make a
meal and take it to a friend who was sick, and I learned that we all have to
help take care of each other.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you give
of your time and money to help people who had nothing and I learned that those
who have something should give to those who don't.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you take
care of our house and everyone in it and I learned we have to take care of what
we are given.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw how you
handled your responsibilities, even when you didn't feel good and I learned that
I would have to be responsible when I grow up.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw tears come
from your eyes and I learned that sometimes things hurt, but it's alright to
cry.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw that you
cared and I wanted to be everything that I could be.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I learned most
of life's lessons that I need to know to be a good and productive person when I
grow up.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I looked at you
and wanted to say, 'Thanks for all the things I saw when you thought I wasn't
looking.'
Each of us (parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle,
teacher or friend) influences the life of a child. How will you touch the life
of someone today?
Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.